Are You Called?
We wished to abandon all to follow Christ. We learned in time that we still had it within ourselves to hold back. We wish to be wholehearted yet we are hesitant. Still, like the first disciples we know that He will draw us along and reinforce our loyalties if we yield to Him.
— Constitutions of the Congregation of Holy Cross, 1:8
Are you called? This is the question that brings you to this website. It is the question that won’t let you go.
Finding the answer requires you to open your heart and dive into the the work of discovering Christ's call. It is work that is well worth your while. If you are called by Christ to serve the Church as a religious priest or brother, it is in that life that you will find your joy. If you are not, it is only by engaging the question that you can find the answer and move on.
The Office of Vocations for the Congregation of Holy Cross, United States Province, stands ready to assist you as you seek to find the answer. Hearing the call is a matter of seriously engaging the process of discernment. Here we provide a few resources to assist you in your discernment, including tips for discernment, prayer resources, retreat opportunities, questions to quide your reflection, answers to frequently asked questions, and vocation stories. In the end, though, one of the greatest aids is a conversation with a Vocation Director. Don’t hesitate to Contact Us if we can be of assistance.
There is no perfect formula for the work of discerning God’s call. Yet there are time tested steps that you can take as well as several aids that can help in your discernment. Take some time with these discernment tips to delve into a deeper exploration of your vocation.
Prayer is one of the greatest resources in discernment. It draws us into a deeper relationship with Christ who is the one offering the call. We provide introductions to several forms of prayer that can be helpful in your discernment.
Christ may be calling you to follow, yet the many distractions of life can make it difficult to hear that call and respond. Retreats offer opportunities to step out of day to day life in order to spend time in prayer and reflection. These discernment retreats offered by Holy Cross give you the opportunity for prayer and reflection within the context of learning more about the community and about God’s call.
Seeds of your vocation are already planted in your heart. Spending time reflecting on your own thoughts with regard to your vocation can help to bring those seeds to life. Offered here are questions to help guide that reflection.
There are many questions that come along with the discernment process. In this FAQ section we answer some of the questions that most often come up with regard to formation in Holy Cross. If any of your questions are not answered here, there is a space for you to ask your own.
Sometimes one of the most helpful resources for discovering your vocation is the story of how someone else discovered theirs. It might even reassure you that you are not alone in your own questions and experiences. Take some time with these stories of Holy Cross religious discovering their vocation to see if they can help you discover yours.